Have you moved in with someone, and now they want to break up?

This can definately be a tough one!

Especially when you feel that you’ve been the best that you can be, and then have someone make you feel as if that does’nt matter.

Thats why breaking up, can be hurtful, because you say such mean things, things that don’t need to be said.

Just Leave, Concentrate, on you and what you have to do in order to stand on your own two feet. For the Girls and Guys that moved in with someone that now wants to break up and you have to move out. Just Leave, and try not to put your self in that same situation again.

Do you agree, if so pleas contact me through:

Contactingbrenda@brendas-e-zine.com

Hope to hear from ya. Bye Bye.

Marriage, are you taking the easy way out?

No one wants to see a marriage fall apart, unfortunately we can be the cause of it. Are you in a marriage that isn’t doing so hot, are you just waiting for the big break, where you’ll have the opportunity to run? This isn’t unusual in today’s society, I can tell you that those marriages that have lasted for 50 years, didn’t even think about a divorce, they faced things head on, solved what need to be, and moved forward.

Today you can file for a disolution for $150.00’s and this is where people gather the mind set, I’ll divorce you if this dosen’t or if you don’t attitude comes from.

Do you agree or disagree, respond to:

contactingbrenda@brendas-e-zine.com and don’t forget to check out this site  brendas-e-zine.com its bran new and we’d love to hear from ya.

Resolving pain in a marriage.

Is your honey, taking off on the bike again, is he running with his friends again, should he be at home with his family?

If the answer is yes, well, why? Is there a drinking problem a drug problem, what draws him or her out, and away from the house. Do you find yourself calling all over the place just to find out where he is or if he’s okay?

Let me gues when he or she leaves you say its okay that you leave as long as your home when you say you will be, and then, there not, and there you are on the phone, continually calling until you’ve found him. And when they return home you have a fight and the cycle just continues.

If your tired of this situation you must re-evaluate where you are in life, are you where you want to be, are you in a relationship that makes your heart content, is the relationship hurting your heart and mind, are you emotionally dependent upon this relationship. If so re-evaluate your self and your situation, set ultimatames and beable to follow through with them. Truly if the person does not care to make things better, what you need to do is get a force set up around you that is goin to be your supporter when you truly decide to stand on your own, a babysitter, maybe another job, maybe a job, financial loan from a relative would be nice until you can get on your feet. You can make it on your own, man or woman, living with unhappiness will hurt you and your children in the long run. If you can set up a stable environment for you and your children before standing on your own 2 feet, you’ll be just fine and it won’t hurt the children as much as ending the relationship in chaos or staying in it just because you feel you can’t make it, you can if you set up a force that is going to represent the support that your gonna need for the first year. Yes it takes time but in one year you will be proudly standing completely on your own, you may still have babysitters but you’re on your on and happier than you and your kids have ever been and most of all in control again. Good luck and good day.