Love nudge!

Let Love give you a nudge.

When was the last time you were given an opportunity to fall in love? Can you remember the last time you enjoyed conversation with a complete stranger? Someone that you were completely drawn to, but to afraid to tell them what your feeling. And then when your day has come to an end its all that you can think about because your single and laying in bed by yourself.

Take the chance when you feel love giving you that nudge to call someone new and ask them out for coffee. Or when your having that conversation with a complete stranger and you cant hear them speak becuase your so drawn to them. Say something right then, right when love nudges you, do it. You just may find your self falling in love with this complete and total stranger and spending the rest of your life enjoying them.  Let love give you the nudge.

Thank you

Miss. Brenda

Enjoy the one your with.

Do you catch yourself dreaming about someone else when your with your current someone. Thats a little unfair to the other person, isn’t it? I say if you have someone special in your life that your spending time with. Enjoy that Person for as long as you can, because dreaming of someone new takes you away from the one your with. Enjoy life now, you may soon see that the right person has been right there in front of you the whole time. Signing Off,
Miss. Brenda

Love yourself first.

In every person there is love to be shared, my advice would be  to love yourself first. If you know who you are you should love who you are, if you have unresolved issues you can get rid of them by knowing who you are. How? When you sit down to resolve these issues, write on paper your values, what you hope for in a relationship, what you won’t except in a relationship and then look back at your issues, you should have no problem solving the issue. You would simply look at your values that you have written in paper and you say I dont want to be with someone who fills me with guilt, or I am going to quit blaming my father for all of my lousy relationships, what ever the issue may be you can solve them by reviewing your values. When you have resolved these issues you have learned something about your self and when you finally get to that last issue then and only then will you be ready to love someone else comfortably, because you decided to love you first.

Signing Off,

Miss. Brenda

Have you moved in with someone, and now they want to break up?

This can definately be a tough one!

Especially when you feel that you’ve been the best that you can be, and then have someone make you feel as if that does’nt matter.

Thats why breaking up, can be hurtful, because you say such mean things, things that don’t need to be said.

Just Leave, Concentrate, on you and what you have to do in order to stand on your own two feet. For the Girls and Guys that moved in with someone that now wants to break up and you have to move out. Just Leave, and try not to put your self in that same situation again.

Do you agree, if so pleas contact me through:

Contactingbrenda@brendas-e-zine.com

Hope to hear from ya. Bye Bye.

Marriage, are you taking the easy way out?

No one wants to see a marriage fall apart, unfortunately we can be the cause of it. Are you in a marriage that isn’t doing so hot, are you just waiting for the big break, where you’ll have the opportunity to run? This isn’t unusual in today’s society, I can tell you that those marriages that have lasted for 50 years, didn’t even think about a divorce, they faced things head on, solved what needed to be, and moved forward.

Thank you

Miss Brenda

Resolving pain in a marriage.

Is your honey, taking off on the bike again, is he running with his friends again, should he be at home with his family?

If the answer is yes, well, why? Is there a drinking problem a drug problem, what draws him or her out, and away from the house. Do you find yourself calling all over the place just to find out where he is or if he’s okay?

Let me gues when he or she leaves you say its okay that you leave as long as your home when you say you will be, and then, there not, and there you are on the phone, continually calling until you’ve found him. And when they return home you have a fight and the cycle just continues.

If your tired of this situation you must re-evaluate where you are in life, are you where you want to be, are you in a relationship that makes your heart content, is the relationship hurting your heart and mind, are you emotionally dependent upon this relationship. If so re-evaluate your self and your situation, set ultimatames and beable to follow through with them. Truly if the person does not care to make things better, what you need to do is get a force set up around you that is goin to be your supporter when you truly decide to stand on your own, a babysitter, maybe another job, maybe a job, financial loan from a relative would be nice until you can get on your feet. You can make it on your own, man or woman, living with unhappiness will hurt you and your children in the long run. If you can set up a stable environment for you and your children before standing on your own 2 feet, you’ll be just fine and it won’t hurt the children as much as ending the relationship in chaos or staying in it just because you feel you can’t make it, you can if you set up a force that is going to represent the support that your going to need during the first year. Yes it takes time, but in one year you will be proudly standing completely on your own, you may still have babysitters but you’re on your own and happier than you and your kids have ever been and most of all, in control again. Good luck and good day.